Dear Future RN: A Guide From Someone Who’s Been There

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Dear Future RN: A Guide From Someone Who’s Been There

There’s a sacred kind of courage required to pursue a dream as demanding as becoming a nurse.

If you’re reading this, it’s likely you’re about to take one of the most challenging, soul-stretching exams of your life: the Philippine Nursing Licensure Examination.

I took that very same path in 2011. I wore the same fears you might be wearing now. And while each journey is deeply personal, there are lessons that remain timeless—lessons I now share with you not as a list, but as a letter. A map. A hand on your shoulder saying, “You’ve got this.”

Here are the strategies, truths, and reminders that got me through.

1. Know That the NLE Is Not a Typical Exam

It’s broad. It’s unpredictable. It’s designed not just to test memory, but to measure your clinical judgment, your readiness to serve lives, and your ability to prioritize in moments that matter.

Don’t make the mistake of cramming only the “common” topics. The exam can (and will) surprise you with obscure diseases, rare cases, and ethical dilemmas. Instead of memorizing for perfection, focus on understanding principles and learning how to think like a nurse.

🔖 Tip: Review your fundamentals—Maslow’s Hierarchy, ABCs (Airway-Breathing-Circulation), nursing process (ADPIE), therapeutic communication, drug calculations, and community/public health protocols.

2. Build a Flexible But Consistent Study Routine

There is no one-size-fits-all. Some people study best at dawn, others at night. Some use flashcards, others annotate thick books. The key isn’t to copy someone else’s method—it’s to know yourself and what truly works for you.

Start with structured blocks:

Morning: Core subjects (e.g., Med-Surg, Fundamentals, OB-Pedia) Afternoon: Practice questions and rationales Evening: Review mistakes, rewrite summaries, gentle recall Sundays: Rest, prayer, or reflection

🔖 Tip: Use mock exams to test retention and endurance. Always review your mistakes—not to feel bad, but to refine your thinking.

3. Protect Your Peace

You will be tempted to panic. You will be overwhelmed. That’s okay.

But remember: the goal is not to know everything. It’s to enter that exam room clear-headed, well-rested, and emotionally ready. Mental and emotional clarity are your secret weapons. Your study notes are useless if you’re too anxious to focus.

🔖 Strategy: Don’t compare your progress with others. Unfollow if needed. Stay off social media a few days before the exam. Prioritize calm. Choose prayer over pressure.

4. PRAY. (Not as a backup plan—but as the foundation)

Whether you’re spiritual or religious, one truth remains: this journey is too big to carry alone.

In my own review season, I visited churches, whispered prayers before mock tests, and leaned into faith more than I ever had. There were moments I wanted to quit, but prayer kept me anchored.

Prayer is not magic. It’s your reminder that you are never alone in the waiting.

✍️ Try this: Write a personal prayer or mantra and tuck it into your reviewer. Read it when fear creeps in.

5. Review Smart, Not Just Hard

You’ve probably heard this—but let me explain it in real terms:

Focus on why answers are correct rather than just memorizing them. Group topics logically (e.g., cardiac meds, renal nursing, infectious diseases). Don’t skip Legal/Ethics, Leadership, and Public Health—they often hold hidden weight in the exam.

🔖 Method: Use the “Teach Back” method. If you can explain a topic simply to someone else, you’ve mastered it.

6. Prepare for the Exam Days Logistically and Emotionally

Days before the exam:

Visit your testing site. Know the route, landmarks, and where to eat. Pack all needed documents: Notice of Admission, IDs, snacks, pens. Practice waking up early and simulate exam conditions (time yourself).

Night before the exam:

Don’t review anymore. Your brain needs rest. Drink warm milk, avoid caffeine, lay out your clothes, and sleep early. Trust that everything you’ve studied is already within you.

Exam days:

Breathe. Pray. Take it one question at a time. Don’t look around the room. You are on your own journey.

🔖 Tip: Bring water, lozenges, and light snacks—nothing heavy that will make you sleepy.

7. Know Why You’re Doing This

Beyond the titles, the licenses, the results—what’s your “why”?

Is it your family? Your future patients? The version of yourself who dared to believe this dream was possible?

Hold on to that.

Because when the exam feels impossible, your “why” will help you remember who you are.

✍️ Write it on a sticky note: “I’m doing this for ___.” Place it on your wall. Look at it every morning.

Final Words: From One Survivor to Another

You don’t have to be the top scorer to be an excellent nurse.

You just need heart, honesty, and humility. The NLE is not the end goal—it’s a gate. What lies beyond is a life of service, strength, and quiet victories at the bedside.

Study with purpose. Rest with faith. Walk into the exam with the confidence that you are walking in with everything you need.

And when the results come out—whatever the outcome—please remember:

You are not defined by numbers. You are defined by the life you’re called to heal.

From someone who once failed mock tests, doubted herself daily, and still passed in 2011… I’m here, whispering back to you:

You will make it.

And I’ll be waiting to celebrate when you do.

AJ Gabriel, RN

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